Thursday, October 22, 2009

How has computer technology affected privacy in public places?

You have probably heard about the latest wrinkle in teen dating and adolescent sexuality "sexting." It is used to define a situation where a person takes a photo of himself or herself or others nude and/or involved in some sort of sexual behavior. Sometimes even posted on Facebook. A recent survey by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy found that "a significant number of teens have electronically sent, or posted online, nude or semi-nude pictures or video of themselves." There have been a number of media stories lately about teens and sexting, including a push to prosecute teens as sex offenders, a course of action that Health Quarters does not endorse.
This issue is hard to understand and downright scary to many adults, especially parents, and trying to get a handle on it can seem daunting. Experts in adolescent psychological development would probably say there is a generational gap between the way teens and their parents use technology, and possibly a greater gap between each population's view of sexual behavior and relationships. Although these gaps may seem wide, it's imperative that parents try to connect with their children on this issue: Let them know your concerns, the potential consequences of sexting and strategies to keep themselves safe.
Much of what teens are dealing today regarding navigating relationships and sexual decision-making is pretty similar to issues their parents faced. Whether or not they are participating in this new trend, teens still are concerned about, and need information on, body image, self esteem, gender stereotypes, healthy relationships, communication skills, sexual orientation and pregnancy and STD prevention. Keep this in mind when you sit down to talk with them about sexting; they need to hear parents' values and wisdom about these more "traditional" topics, as well.

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